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Jump Start # 4092

Jump Start # 4092

 

Hebrews 13:7 “Remember those who led you, who spoke the word of God to you; and considering the result of their conduct, imitate their faith.”

 

The Hebrew brethren were tired, troubled and in turmoil. Their journey with the Lord had become a hard, uphill climb. It wasn’t what many thought it would be. Some stopped and turned around. Life was easier when they were simply Jews. Some were still on the fence about what they would do. Powerfully, the writer of Hebrews, who I lean towards being Apollos, shows what a mistake it would be to walk away from the Lord. Christ was the best choice, even though life was hard.

 

Now, in the final sentences of this letter, a final plea and tug on the heart is made. Remember, how powerful that is. How easy it is to forget. Remember those who came before you. Remember those who were so dedicated. Remember how they lived. Remember how they stuck with it. Imitate that faith. Imitate their faith.

 

This verse ought to ring loud and true for us as well.

 

First, all of us has someone in our lives that taught us and showed us the way of the Lord. We all stand upon the shoulders of others. It may have been a grandparent. It may have been our parents. A friend. They patiently talked to us about Jesus Christ. They showed us verses. They answered our questions. They were stayed at it with us. Their love for the Lord and our souls impressed us and touched our lives.

 

Can you put names to those people? Do you remember?

 

Sometimes those who taught us didn’t finish the course. Some had troubles in their faith and later stopped walking with the Lord. That can be hard on those who follow. Other times, through the years our knowledge, faith and strength has surpassed the ones who first taught us. We caught up with them spiritually.

 

Second, the impression of our verse leads us to believe that those who first taught the gospel to the Hebrews had completed their journey. They had passed away. A footnote in the NAS adds to the word “result” by saying “end of life.” They had died and go on to the Lord. By ending this verse with, “imitate their faith,” it appears that they kept the faith, finished the course and did what the Lord wanted them to do. We all know beloved saints who are on the other side now. So many from generations past sacrificed and dedicated themselves to the kingdom of Christ. We miss them dearly but know that they are safe in the arms of Jesus. They are home where they longed to be.

 

And, without saying it directly, the torch has been passed to the readers of this letter. The brave saints that taught and showed the way have gone to their reward. Now, who will do what they did? Now, who will teach others? Now, who will leave footprints for others to follow? If the Hebrews dropped the ball, it would impact all those who were counting on them. What examples would be left? Who would teach?

 

And, can we not see ourselves in this as well? Too busy to teach. Too involved in sports and work to serve. Too much into our lives to think about the lives of others. And, as the baton has been handed to us, what do we do with it? It’s not just about us, it’s about those who follow. What example are we leaving? How will we be remembered spiritually?

 

Third, imitate their faith. Were they perfect? No. Could they have done more? Yes. Was there mistakes and sins in their lives? Obviously. Yet, they could be imitated. Yet, they could be followed. They had a faith that finished. They had a faith that was true to the Lord. What if every person in your congregation had a faith like yours? Would the church be stronger? Would the church be weaker?

 

We all should live in such a genuine fashion that others could follow us. Someday, we will be remembered. Let it be for righteous kindness and good deeds. Let it be for the way we helped others. Let it be for walking faithfully with the Lord.

 

Remember…it’s a good thing to do.

 

Roger

 

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Jump Start # 4091

Jump Start # 4091

 

Nehemiah 3:5 “Moreover, next to him the Tekoites made repairs, but their nobles did not support the work of their masters.”

 

Our verse today comes from the section of Nehemiah that identifies the names and places where the repairing of the walls around Jerusalem were taking place. Each person had a spot. Each person had a place. Each person did what he could do. That is, except for the nobles, as our verse identifies.

 

The NLT ends this verse with these words: “their leaders refused to work with the construction supervisors.” Not sure what the issue was here. Did they not like each other? Was one group too good to do that kind of manual labor? As eternity has given us the names of these brilliant workers, it also left for generations to know that the leaders refused to work.

 

Leaders who won’t work is a problem. It’s a problem in the home. Absentee fathers. They may be in the house. They may bring home the paycheck. But, they are not involved with the raising of the kids. They come home and expect to be served. They want others to do what they do not want to do. Leaders who refuse to work.

 

It’s a problem in the church. Many leaders operate the church like it’s a business. They love giving orders out, especially to deacons, but they refuse to do the work. They do not want to go visit members. They do not want to have those hard conversations. They do not want to be hands on. Put them in an elder’s room where they can talk, discuss and debate the ins and outs of things, and they are happy as they can be. But doing the work is something that they do not want to do.

 

Sometimes people complain that the leaders are not doing things when actually they are. There are things going on behind the scenes that few know about. There has been phone calls and texts and visits back and forth for months. Other times, the leaders are working on several things at once. While we may feel that our problem is a priority, they may see other issues as being at the top of the list. Problems do not wait until one is solved before the next one shows up.  There can be multiple things going on at the same time. We may not see that, nor understand that.

 

But to have leaders who refuse to work, that is another problem all together.

 

Here are some thoughts:

 

First, some leaders do not understand what they are supposed to do. Be it dads or be it leaders in the church, it can be assumed that one just knows what to do. There needs to be some teaching and some training that takes place. Mentoring and having classes will help prepare new leaders to understand their role and what is expected of them.

 

Without some teaching, training and mentoring, one generation just does what the past generation does. If what was done before was dysfunctional, broken and not healthy, the new ones coming on will just continue that pattern. The way to break that cycle is to look deeply at shepherding, parenting and leading.

 

Second, pride can also play a major role in this. There are some who believe that they have all the answers and there is nothing more that they can learn. That arrogance will limit growth and feed into a rebellion or a split. All of us can learn. All of us can improve. And older leader can learn from a younger leader.

 

Third, when others are working and they see the leaders are not, it will cause the work to slow down or stop. Why should we do the work when the leaders don’t? But, when the younger ones see the older ones working hard, it sends a great spirit of encouragement through the group. Team work happens. Together great things are accomplished.

 

The leaders refused to work, but Nehemiah didn’t. He was busy all the time. He was praying all the time. He was connected and encouraging all the time.

 

Leaders who refuse to work…not something one wants to hear.

 

Roger

 

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Jump Start # 4090

Jump Start # 4090

 

Matthew 19:6 “So they are no loner two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.”

 

Throwback Thursday: an article written from the past

 

Why the Fourth Finger?

 

There is a beautiful and convincing explanation given long ago as to why wedding rings are worn on the fourth finger. Each finger represents a relationship:

 

Thumb: your parents

Second (index) finger: your siblings

Middle finger: yourself

Fourth (ring) finger: your spouse

Last (little) finger: your children

 

First, open your hands (palm to palm), bend the middle fingers, and hold them together– back to back. Second, open and hold the remaining three fingers and the thumb –tip to tip.

 

Now, try to separate your thumbs (representing the parents). They will open—because your parents are not destined to live with you lifelong. Jesus said a man must leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife.

 

Join your thumbs as before and separate your index fingers (representing siblings). They will also open, because your brothers and sisters will have their own families and will lead their own separate lives.

 

Now join the index fingers and separate your little fingers (representing your children). They will open too, because the children will grow up, move out, get married and settle down on their own some day.

 

Finally, join your little fingers, and try to separate your ring fingers (representing husband and wife). You will be surprised to see that you cannot, because husband and wife have to remain together all their lives—through thick and thin.

 

Inseparable—that is God’s intention for marriage!

 

And, this is why the wedding rings go on the fourth finger and why it is commonly called “the ring finger.”

 

Roger

August, 2008

 

 

 

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Jump Start # 4089

Jump Start # 4089

 

Luke 24:51 “While He was blessing them, He parted from them and was carried up into Heaven.”

 

Our verse today describes the ascension of Jesus into Heaven. It seems that we talk a lot about the resurrection but not so much about the ascension. As the apostles saw Jesus leaving their sight, a great loneliness must have filled their hearts. The Lord had promised not to leave them as orphans. The Holy Spirit would guide them and help them. Jesus promised to come back. But, for now, they were on their own. They wouldn’t have Jesus around to answer their questions. They wouldn’t have Jesus there to temper their spirits and to show them the way to walk in righteousness. On their own…

 

Life can be like that for us. It’s that way when a beloved family member passes away. The house seems empty and quiet. It’s that way when the last child moves out. A loneliness and an emptiness takes over. We can feel that way when a beloved friend, shepherd or preacher leaves.

 

For some, that emptiness pulls them into a deep funk. They don’t feel like doing anything. They wish things could return to the way it was before, but it can’t. It never will be.

 

So, what can we do? What would the Lord want us to do?

 

First, for the apostles, the Lord gave them a mission. They were to return to Jerusalem and wait for the Holy Spirit to come upon them. Then they were to be witnesses of Christ throughout the world. These apostles would soon preach. Another apostle would be chosen. And, in a short time, they would split up and go different directions throughout the known world.

 

And, for us it is a similar thing. There is the call of God that we must be about. While you may feel like staying in bed most of the day, you need to get up. You need to start your routine. You’ve got things to do. You have a kingdom that needs you. Your family needs you. Your church needs you. It’s one thing to hit the pause button on life for a moment, but some want to stop life all together. They exist but they no longer live. That’s not what the Lord wants.

 

Second, the Lord didn’t abandon the apostles. He had been preparing them for this moment and the Spirit of God would lead them and help them. And, in a similar way, we are not totally on our own. Aside from the obvious such as our immediate family and our church family, we have been instructed and prepared for this through the teachings of God’s word. We have examples throughout the Bible. We have the promises of God that comforts us. We have the blessed assurance that the Lord will be with us.

 

Third, all although some things will never be the same again, the new chapter in your life can be one of the best chapters. New people. New challenges. New opportunities. For that small band of apostles, they have been together day and night for three years. They had seen incredible things. And, shortly after this, they would spread out to the four corners of the planet preaching the Gospel. Did they stay in touch with each other? Did they ever get back together just to renew their friendships? Would they ever be together again? Historically, it is doubtful. But, they were off to new places, preaching God’s word to new faces, knowing that this is exactly what the Lord wanted them to do.

 

The loneliness of change and the emptiness we feel knowing that certain people may not be back in our lives again may bring a tear to our eyes. Quickly dry those tears and get busy doing what the Lord intended for you to do. Rejoice and be thankful for the wonderful intersections in life God creates with amazing people. They have encouraged us, helped us and been there for us. Learn from that and try to be that way for someone else.

 

I’ve known some who after the death of their mate, they walked the rest of their days with a cloud over their heads. Gloom and doom is all they would talk about. Their smile seems to have disappeared and they no longer wanted to be a part of anything that would bring joy into their hearts. Life stopped for them. The clock never moved past that sad event.

 

For the disciple, when a Christian dies, we have the grand hope of seeing them on the other side. It’s never “goodbye,” as my hero Dee Bowman would say. For the Christian, it’s “see you later.” There is hope in that because we will see you later—just as the Lord promised.

 

Fill that emptiness with joy and help others who are struggling.

 

Roger

 

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Jump Start # 4087

Jump Start # 4087

 

Ecclesiastes 3:1 “ There is an appointed time for everything. And there is a time for every event under Heaven.”

 

Our verse today opens up the beautiful section often called “the seasons of life.” Solomon contrasts a series of fourteen opposites. The good and the bad are placed side by side. Things we like and things we dread. There is a time for every event, we are told.

 

One of the seasons we are in right now, is the time of graduations. High school, college, grad school, they are wrapping up for the year and many students are at the edge of “what’s next” for them. Graduation is a season of transition. As the graduate heads off to college or trade school, he will no longer have mom and dad around reminding them of the things to do. Clean your room, take out the trash, get up and get ready, are the things that parents hope have been instilled in their child’s mind. Have you ever walked through a college dorm when the students are moving out? It’s like a war zone. Pizza boxes stacked up that have been kept for months. Clothes that haven’t been washed in a semester. Expensive text books discarded on the floor. Filth and dirt that would make most moms weep. On their own, some do well. On their own, some demonstrate that they are not ready to be on their own.

 

The season of graduating is a transition for parents. Your little boy is no longer ‘little.’ He stands taller than you and would rather be with his friends than stay at home and watch a movie with you. Graduating is hard on parents. You no longer rank as the most important in their lives. Friends and romance and sports and fun have now filled the spot you always held. Sure they love you, but you’re not the first choice anymore. That’s hard on parents.

 

Parenting, like farming, reminds us that there are certain seasons when things must get done. If they don’t, then what follows will become much harder. Around here, in Southern Indiana, the corn is already poking up through the soil. Farmers have planted. It’s going to take all summer and into the fall until that corn is ready to be harvested. A farmer who waits until summer to start all of this, is starting too late. He won’t get much of a harvest at all.

 

Parenting is like that. If parents wait until graduation time to start talking to their child about being responsible, having faith in the Lord and being a servant at heart, it’s really too late. Attitudes have formed. Character has been forged. Habits have developed. The planting season in parenting is when that child is very young. Over and over parents will repeat the lessons. They will illustrate those lessons through their own examples and lives. By the time some of us get ready, the child is long gone on his own way.

 

So, here are some thoughts:

 

First, use every precious moment to teach the big picture of life. God loves you. God loves you when you sin and make mistakes. The world can be evil. Be careful who you listen to. Talk about these things. Debate these things. In the home, in the church building, at the store, at the ball game, anywhere and everywhere one is plowing deep with God’s word.

 

Second, don’t expect perfection. You’re not. Your child will not be. The demands and pressure we place on young people can be enough to break their spirit. You want your child to try. Don’t quit because it’s hard. Don’t quit because you don’t like something. Stay with it. You want your child to be the best that he can be.

 

Third, build a relationship that is based upon the Lord and love. In the later seasons of life, your children can become your best friends. Precious memories have filled your hearts and brought you together. How special those generational family gatherings are. Stories are told. Lots of laughter. Lots of fun. All of these things are built upon the years of love and being there for one another.

 

Graduation…what a special time that is in your life. It’s a milestone event. But, the journey is not over. Not yet. New paths to follow. New challenges to meet. New people in your lives. As you face these decisions, having the Lord will you makes all the difference.

 

Roger