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2 Samuel 12:10 “Now therefore, the sword shall never depart from your house, because you have despised Me and have taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your wife.”
Our verse today are the words of the Lord towards King David. The king had fallen deeply into lust and lost his footing and focus with the Lord. In the end, a good man, one of David’s mighty men, a neighbor, was allowed to die to cover up the sins that David had committed. God saw. God knew. And, after several months, David’s little secret is revealed. His house of cards comes tumbling down around him. And, he is left with the misery of wrong choices and ungodly actions. And, the door swings openly widely to trouble that follows. There would be a rape in his palace. One son would murder another son. One son would later try to kill David and steal the throne. The tears that flowed because of that sin with Bathsheba would never seem to end.
My, we need to be reminded of this today. We are not immune to the lust that destroys trust and ends a marriage. Many a godly leader no longer leads because of losing focus with the Lord and allowing the world to fill his mind and heart.
Notice some powerful conclusions from this:
First, the consequences of sin lasts a lot longer than the pleasures of the sin. A few moments of wild lust may seem captivating but for David, a baby was born. A baby died. Trouble. Shame. Death. These all plagued the palace and were all directly related to the sinful choices of David.
The shame of your sin being discovered. The lies you tell to try to cover it up and keep your secret secret. Rebuke and reproach by the people of God. Having to pay for attorneys, selling the house, dividing up things and then only being able to see your own children once in a while, because of a divorce. A little bit of sinful fun can ruin the rest of your life.
Second, when the sin is discovered, many innocent people are hurt. Some are hurt emotionally and mentally. Some are hurt socially. Some are hurt financially. Families are often torn apart. Some will never speak to one another again. Grandparents are hurt. Friends are hurt. People that you never wanted to hurt are hurt. People you never thought about are hurt. And, the damage and pain doesn’t go away just because you say that you are sorry. The damage caused and the trust broken may never be able to be repaired again.
Third, the longer and more involved that we become with wrong, the harder and messier it is to get out of that sin. This is true of most addictions. This is true of alcohol. This is true of drugs. This is true of porn. This is true of gambling. The longer you remain in the in the land of wrong the more difficult it is to get out and the more painful it is to get out. Sin can not only be so inviting and exciting, but it can be so easy to stumble into. It doesn’t take a lot of forethought and planning to do wrong. One doesn’t put on paper a plan to fail spiritually. It happens, like a bird caught in a snare, as Proverbs paints it.
And, the longer we stand in the wilderness of wrong, our minds become numb, twisted and affected. We don’t see straight because we don’t think straight. We surround ourselves with those who also are doing wrong. Our encouragement shifts. No longer is it to follow the Lord, but now it is to dive deeper into wrong.
Then, with some addictions, our health becomes ruined. What quickly follows is a ruination of our finances. We become a total mess. The bottom drops out. And, there is no one to point the finger to. It was our choices. Our dumb decisions. Our listening to the wrong people. Our sin that got us there.
There are a lot of ways into sin, but there is only one way out. The way of the Cross leads home. It is only through Christ that we can begin to be honest with God and then ourselves and others. It is through the Lord that joy can once again return. But, it’s a long and lonely road back home. The prodigal knew it.
Had someone shown David a picture of all the pain, tears and troubles that would follow him as he watched Bathsheba bathing, he’d likely turn around and gone inside his house. Oh, to see the consequences, pain and sorrow that follows sin. Wrong just doesn’t look so pretty when you take a look at the consequences.
How true the saying: Sin will take you farther than you want to go, it will keep you longer than you want to stay, and it will cost you more than you want to pay. The wages of sin is death. Speak clearly, plainly and openly about this.
Roger
