Jump Start # 4077
1 Kings 12:8 “But he forsook the counsel of the elders which they had given him, and consulted with the young men who grew up with him and served him.”
Our verse today reveals one of the lead up causes for the division of the nation of Israel. David made the nation strong. Solomon made the nation wealthy. Now, the torch is passed to Rehoboam, Solomon’s son. Rather than staying the course, he rejected the counsel of the elders and listened to his buddies that he grew up with. Solomon had taxed the people heavily to fund the construction of the Temple, his palace and other projects. Remember Ecclesiastes 2 where a detailed list of houses, gardens, ponds, orchards and livestock. I doubt Solomon used his own money for these things. Now, a new king was on the throne. Would he keep the heavy burden of taxes on the people or would he reduce them? The elders suggested lowering the taxes. The young friends of the king encouraged him to raise the taxes even more. The king did just that. It resulted in a passive civil war. The kingdom split. Israel and Judah became two separate nations. They never got back together again.
Rehoboam’s spirit lingers on today. In homes and in congregations, the advice of seasoned Christians is ignored. And, much too often, like with Rehoboam’s nation, trouble, division and heart ache follows.
Here are some thoughts:
First, the counsel of the elders would have been the men who helped advise Solomon. They got the nation to a good place. Experience, understanding the times, seeing potential troubles, anticipating consequences, knowing how to work with people, patience are all in the files of these elder counselors. Been there and done that is something that they could say. Seen that before, is yet another aspect of their wisdom and understanding.
Could this be one reason why the leadership in God’s church is called “elders.” Not ancient. Not out of touch. But, full of wisdom, experience and understanding.
It is the tragedy of youth to reject what older Christians say merely because they are “old.” And, because of that, just like Rehoboam, many rush into ideas that have not been well thought out, chasing the latest fad because it seems exciting, and ending up in a mess that they cannot get themselves out of. This results in wrecked marriages, ruined congregations and a whole bunch of bitter and unhappy people.
Just recently, I’ve known of three or four congregations that were in search for a preacher. “How do you find a good one?” I was asked. I walked through the steps with them. I’ve done this a few times and understand how valuable these steps are. I gave them some suggestions. I shared that if you stick with this, it will become a win-win situation for everyone. Did they follow my advice? Absolutely not. Some of those congregations are headed for a major disaster. I see it coming.
Pride has a lot to do with listening to others. We think we know. We don’t want to ask for advice. And, that pride will lead us straight into the arms of trouble. Among shepherds in the church, we don’t ask for the advice of other shepherds outside of our congregation for fear of violating some aspect of autonomy. So, we are left to our own thinking and choices. Wisdom is there, if we would seek it.
Second, the young friends of Rehoboam, likely loved the position and power they got from being around the king. They may even had some personal agenda and profit in mind when they suggested raising the taxes even more. Selfish, prideful and not thinking about the wellbeing of others, decisions are made that hurt the nation. The same can be said of the home. The same can be said of the church. Full of ideas, ambition and running faster than they were thinking decisions are made that cannot be unmade. Job promotions, moving, switching jobs, switching schools, switching majors, proposing marriage to someone, all of these ought to be considered after seasoned and spiritual eyes look them over. I’ve had a young man tell me about exciting job opportunities that he was pursuing. It meant moving the family across the country. Lots of money and opportunity was the talk. When I asked about a church there, a blank stare came across his face. Hadn’t thought about that, was the reply. Don’t you think that is important, I said. Choices made without the advice of someone older and someone spiritual.
Third, we elders need not be telling younger people, “I told you so,” when they come to us and expect us to clean up a mess they made by rushing into something without thinking it through. Be kind. Be helpful. Lessons are being learned. And, the next time, they may come to you for insights and instruction, because you have helped them. It’s hard seeing others heading to a waterfall after you warned them and told them to turn around. Stubborn, they believed they knew better. And, now they are about to go over and crash. Be there to help pick up the pieces. Be there in patience and kindness.
Advice. Wisdom. Experience. Help. Don’t ignore those things. Be careful who you ask. Be careful what you listen to. Don’t make the Rehoboam blunder!
Roger
