Jump Start # 4049
Mark 4:34 “and He did not speak to them without a parable; but He was explaining everything privately to His own disciples.”
Ever since I went skydiving a couple of years ago, I have been asked by so many, “What is it like?” And, since most ‘normal’ folks don’t jump out of airplanes, it’s hard to explain. What I do is try to find something that they would understand, like a rollercoaster or floating like a feather. And, that is the concept behind the parables. Jesus is telling His disciples what these spiritual truths are like. And, like skydiving, many had no clue as to what the Lord was talking about. So, the Lord would take simple, everyday situations from life to show what the kingdom of Heaven was like.
We like the common definition for a parable, “an earthly story with a heavenly meaning.” The core meaning of the word parable is “to lay along side of.” It is a comparison. You take something that is known and you lay it beside something that is not known. And, by looking at what I know, I begin to understand what I did not know.
I began teaching a new series of classes on “The Kingdom Parables.” So, we have walked through the basics about parables. One thing I believe many miss is that so many of the parables were not nice stories. These are not the kind of things you tell your children at bedtime. In fact, if you did, they’d probably have nightmares. For instance: a man is beaten and left for dead, a house collapses during a storm, a man wearing the wrong outfit is asked to leave a wedding, a forgiven man won’t forgive another, a foolish son wastes his inheritance, a manager cheats his master, because some were late, the doors were locked and they were not allowed to enter, a man dies suddenly before he can finish his plans.
Stories of broken homes, broken lives and hardship. Robbery. Death. Stealing. Hatred. These were not “Chicken Soup for the Soul.” These would have grabbed your attention and made you shake your head. But, these are what we find in life. These kind of stories fill the nightly news. Life has an ugly side to it and Jesus didn’t pretend that these things do not exist. He used these very stories of pain to teach principles about God’s eternal kingdom.
What should we learn from this:
First, ignoring the pain in life isn’t realistic nor helpful. Some live in the land of denial and because of that they never face their problems, deal with their problems nor are made better because of their problems. They smooth things over with a butter knife and cannot cope with the harshness of life. They attach problems with a lack of faith. And, when problems coming knocking on their door, they do not want to admit they have a faith issue, so they pretend that everything is fine even though it is not.
Their thinking is crooked in all of this. Suffering is one of God’s greatest classrooms. Trials and troubles follow the believers of God. It is not a sign of shallow faith.
Second, we need to show our children that life can be unfair. Pets die. Friends walk away. You don’t always get your way. Sheltering our children from the harshness of life may seem to protect them, but actually it fails to prepare them. Later in life, when they are faced with these things, they collapse because they have never tasted the bitterness that life offers. I think about a couple of my sweet granddaughters. They had a cute little kitten that they adored. It died. They had a wonderful gymnastic coach. She was killed in an automobile accident. Those little girls have been to the funeral home so many times. I’ve seen them cry the tears of sorrow and wish I could take it all away, but deep inside I know this will make them stronger.
Third, the heroes of the parables are often not the obvious choice. It was a Samaritan that illustrated what a neighbor was. The priest and Levite didn’t. It was a tax collector that was deemed righteous, not the arrogant Pharisee who thought he was better than others. Heroes are not always the ones we expect. Overcoming what people thought and said about them, they lived their faith and showed that they understood the heart of righteousness.
Painful parables—what is even more painful is when we fail to see ourselves in them and when we fail to be changed by them.
Through these tragic stories, the Lord teaches us lessons of promise and hope.
Roger
