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Jump Start # 3209

Jump Start # 3209

Job 4:4 “Your words have helped the tottering to stand, and you have strengthened feeble knees.”

Our verse today are the words of Eliphaz, one of the friends of Job. He is pointing out the good that Job has done in the past. He is commending him as one who has helped others. And, what we find here is the powerful impact that our words can have on others. Feeble knees and tottering describes one who is just about to fall down. I’ve seen this physically. An older person who ought to be using a walker decides not to. They totter and immediately you reach out to keep them from falling.

But here, the weak knees are not physical knees, but rather, weak hearts. It was the words that Job spoke that made a difference. And, this is a great reminder for us. The little encouragement we give can make a big difference in the lives of others. Our words can keep someone from falling. Our words can be the very thing that keeps someone stable.

We live in times where there are many slippery places and unsound words. The world pushes us. Satan tries to pull the rug out from under us. Tottering and feeble may well describe many of us after the past two years. It doesn’t take much to knock over someone who is tottering. Feeble knees doesn’t fit the Ephesian description of standing firm, as God wants us to be.

Some lessons for us:

First, life and death, as the wisdom literature defines our words, are powerful. We must be careful what we say. People remember. Most of us who have some age and miles on us can still hear our moms saying things to us. Those words stuck. This is why James tells us to be slow to speak. Speaking without thinking will get you into all kinds of trouble. A person can say that they are sorry, but the words have been aired. People remember.  The Bible equates encouragement as “Building up.” That’s what Job was doing. His words helped the tottering and they strengthened the feeble. Choice words. Careful words. The right words. Author Mark Twain said that he could live a whole month on one compliment.

Second, others notice. That’s the context of our passage. Eliphaz knew about what Job had said to others. He knew the good that Job had done. And, that’s just the way encouragement works. We often go to help a person but in the process others notice. They hear about it. They are encouraged because you encouraged. Your words were noticed. People saw the good that came from your words. The feeble and the tottering were strengthened.

This is a great reminder for all of us. Do our kids hear us complaining all the time? What about our conversations with brethren? Negative? Never content? Never thankful? You wonder why some people are Christians, because all one hears from their lips are things that they are unhappy about. Not Job. Eliphaz knew the good that Job ha spoken.

Third, around us are those who are needing strengthening. Knees are feeble and their stance is shaky and tottering. Some get this way because they do not stand firm in the Lord. The latest fad, the lies of the serpent have gotten them shaky. They do not know what they believe. When a strong wind of trouble blows, they are likely to fall down. Others have been hit with all kinds of problems. Health issues. Deaths in the family. Trouble in their marriage. Headaches at work. They are wavering. They are about to collapse under all the pressure of troubles. They need reassurance. They need to be reminded of Scriptures. They need to know that a spiritual family supports and loves them. And, the best way they can know these things is from the words that we say. “Your words,” is what Eliphaz was noticing. It wasn’t the cookies Job made. It wasn’t the sheep Job raised. It was his words that made a difference. So often, we are looking for the big thing we can do, but many times it’s simply being there and knowing the right things to say.

When someone is tottering, they may feel ashamed and embarrassed. They need to know that they are not the only one to experience what they are going through. They need to know about others who have gone through those long valleys and made it safely to the other side. They need to be reminded that God remains on the throne. He’s always there.

Fourth, it is very ironic that Eliphaz would recognize what Job had done in the past and within a few pages of the book of Job, he would turn very critical and mean towards Job. What he saw in others, he would not do himself. And, how true that is for us. We notice someone forgiving another person, but we stand with arms crossed, refusing to forgive. We notice the good that kind words do, but we only speak harsh and unpleasant words. We come with our radar gun pointing at others, ready to condemn and ready to assign judgment. The words we say in the time of death can strengthen or they can crush a hurting heart. The words we say when someone comes back as a prodigal can make all the difference or they can make the person wonder why he even came back.

Some are quick to point out how Jesus called the Pharisees hypocrites. What they forget is that the Lord had spent nearly three years with these closed hearts. He had shown them the power of God, but they kept their eyes closed. He had taught them the wonderful words of grace, but their hearts remained silent and indifferent. This was not the Lord’s first encounter with them. Hypocrites is not the first thing He said to them.

Think about what you can say to someone when you see them this Sunday. What would you say to someone you have not met before? What would you say to someone who hasn’t been there in a long time? What would you say to the preacher? What would you say to one of the shepherds? How about a teenager?

Your words can be the very thing that strengthens the feeble and tottering. Your words can be the very reason that someone stays with the Lord and continues on. Your words.

Roger

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Jump Start # 3208

Jump Start # 3208

1 Peter 5:4 “And when the chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the unfading crown of glory.”

In our verse today, Peter identifies Jesus as the Chief Shepherd. Christ is the head. He is the cornerstone. He is the first and the last. All of those powerful terms illustrate that Jesus is the leader. He doesn’t not have a vice-president or a second in command. The will of Christ must be our will. What I want and how I feel about things must submit to what the Lord says. He is the Chief Shepherd.

Most of that is fairly straight forward and easy to understand. The difficulty that often surfaces in many congregations is the interaction of elders or shepherds among themselves. Sometimes there can be some maneuvering, much like horses on a race track, to get into what is believed to be the number one position. A head elder can surface and through pressure and intimidation, he actually runs the church. The other shepherds quietly become “yes men” to him. Unless the head elder wants something, every idea is shot down and dismissed. What is done is what he wants done. After a while, the other shepherds are fearful of opposing him, so they go along with things that they do not feel is right, but who dares challenge the head elder?

Understand, there is only ONE chief shepherd and that is Jesus. The role of a “head elder,” or, “senior shepherd,” is not Biblical. Sometimes it gradually happens, but it should not be allowed.

One becomes the head elder often because he has served the longest. It is thought of as a right of passage. The number of decades serving has made his vision, the only vision and his voice, the only voice. It is wonderful to have men capably serving a long time, but that does not mean they take over.

Other times, men who run their own companies or are executives where they work, carry that over into the eldership and feel that they can continue to do those things among fellow shepherds. What happens in the business world ought not to impact the way God wants the church to be led.

And, obviously, one becomes the head elder because he desires that. He wants to boss the others. He believes that only his ideas matter. And, because of that, his attitude and willingness to cooperate with others actually shows that he is not qualified and no longer has the qualities of a godly leader.

How are shepherds supposed to get along with each other? Some have been doing this for a long time. Others are new to this. Different personalities. Different visions. Different backgrounds. Putting all of that in a pot and stirring it about can make some tense and difficult meetings. Some get so discouraged that they quit. Younger men seeing all of this, quickly decide that they want no part in serving as a future shepherd. It’s not good for the church when shepherds don’t mix and gel together.

First, humility and respect for each other must fill the atmosphere. No one is better than any other among the shepherds. Equal is the key word. When new shepherds are appointed, they should not feel like junior elders or be afraid to speak up. The new ones are just as qualified as the seasoned ones are. Every shepherd ought to have a voice at the table and every one ought to be listened to with dignity, respect and love.

Second, the big picture must always be before us. Keeping Jesus  and His word at the forefront will help ideas, visions and decisions to remain Biblical and true. But, then remembering the people you serve will also help shepherds to remember the young sheep, the new sheep, the struggling sheep and the troubled sheep. Shepherding is about helping people. It’s about making the church stronger and better. The role of elders is not about power, positon or control. Those that do not understand that have no business being appointed in the leadership role.

Third, there are times when differences will take place. There may be discussions that get heated. Listening to one another, looking in the Scriptures and thinking things through is not only necessary but is essential. Sometimes a “come to Jesus” talk has to happen when one forgets what his role and purpose is. When there is transparency, respect and love among each other, the shepherds will leave a room as one voice. And, that is essential. Just as in parenting, if a child goes to mom and gets one answer, and the runs to dad and gets a different answer, he’ll quickly find out his favorite and use it to his advantage. However, when mom and dad are on the same page and say the same thing, the child will understand. The same works among the elders. If they are saying different things, the members will pick up on that and they will find the one that agrees with them. Therefore, to keep that from happening, things must be discussed, talked through, until all the shepherds are on the same page. One voice. One mind. One purpose.

Fourth, it might help to bring in an outside voice to help get all the shepherds on the same page. There are several wonderful brethren who truly understand Biblical shepherding. Set up a time for one of these men to come over on a Saturday and spend the day discussing the roles and ways shepherds can operate as God designed them. This doesn’t have to be a Gospel meeting with the whole church. Bring someone over just for one day, just to help the shepherds.

I would also add, the closer the shepherds can get to one another the better. Go out to eat together with the wives and get to know each other better. Go to a ball game together. Do some things socially, without talking about matters that are in the church. Draw closer to each other. As you do this, the discussions and meetings will go much smoother.

As the church sees unity, respect and love among the leaders, it will be much easier for the members to follow that example. Just like home, the kids can tell when mom and dad are not getting along. It makes things stressful and tense. The same happens in the church. Do all that you can to build bridges and be the source of peace.

There is one Chief Shepherd, and that is Jesus.

Roger

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Jump Start # 3207

Jump Start # 3207

John 3:19 “This is the judgment, that the Light has come into the world, and men loved the darkness rather than the Light, for their deeds were evil.”

Our verse defines the culture of the first century. It likewise illustrates every generation since the first century. Jesus is the Light. Jesus came but people loved the darkness more than the Son of God. What is it like when people love darkness? Understanding this, helps us to understand our times.

First, things that are wrong appeal to people more than things that are right. For God’s people, we see the trail of destruction that follows wrong choices. We see misery and pain. We see the heartache. We see the innocent that suffer. But that doesn’t matter to those who love darkness. They love darkness. They don’t think about consequences. God is not on their radar. Having fun doing dark things is what it is all about for lovers of darkness.

Second, darkness will be supported, defended and voted for by most people. Even though darkness is harmful and destructive, people want it. They love darkness. It’s hard after an election to understand why some candidates who support decency, law and order and fairness are defeated. Their opponents are often strongly supporting legalizing drugs and giving more rights to the criminal than the victim. Why is it that way? Our verse tells us. Men love darkness rather than the Light. It’s beyond Red and Blue, left and right, republican and democrat, it’s about darkness and light. People love darkness.

So, when lovers of darkness are in position of government or big business, their decisions are going to side with the policies of darkness. They love darkness and darkness is what they want. It’s not a matter of what is best, what is right, or even where the facts line up. It all comes down to some love darkness. And, when one loves darkness, he doesn’t care about truth, right, fairness or what is the best thing to do. He’s all about darkness. The darker it becomes, the more he loves it.

Third, not only are those who love the Light in the minority, it is hard for them to understand the rest of the world. Why do people do these things? They love darkness is the answer. Why do people act so selfish? They love darkness. Why is crime increasing? They love darkness. Why are so many shows indecent and immoral? They love darkness. Why is it that everywhere you turn, alcohol is everywhere? They love darkness. Why are churches dwindling these days? They love darkness.

All through the book of Acts we read of the accelerating growth of the church. It was exploding upon the first century world. But, even with that, one must realize that more were in darkness than the Light. More loved the darkness than they loved the Light. One cannot really call this a “Christian nation,” when more love darkness than they do the Light. In our schools, in our neighborhoods, in our places of work, at the movies, at concerts, at shows, at the gym, all around us, will be those who love darkness. They will talk about darkness. They will laugh about dark things. They will be obsessed with darkness. They will know all about dark things. And, the reason is simple. They love darkness. That is their world. That is their life. That is what they know.

Fourth, the people of God will truly stand out. We are the light of the world. We are shinning so brightly in a very dark world. Around us are people whose values, beliefs, likes and definitions are so different that what ours are. We are Light and they are darkness. We will stand out. We will be noticed. We will be different. And, there will be some that will be attracted to that Light. There will be some that notice and are curious. There will be some that see a difference and appreciate that difference. Some will mock you because you do not participate in the darkness that they love. Some will pressure you to engage in dark deeds with them. But, there will be a few that appreciate goodness, kindness, grace, thoughtfulness, and Light. Some are weary of darkness. Some have seen the misery that comes with darkness. Some are looking for something else, something better, something real. And, that brings them to you.

Don’t try to blend in with darkness. Don’t try to act like darkness. Don’t worry that lovers of darkness want nothing to do with you. You are Light. You follow the Light.

It’s hard to understand why some people do what they do. Jesus sums it up the best, by telling us that they are lovers of darkness. Be thankful for Jesus. Be thankful that someone helped you walk out of darkness into the Light of Jesus. Be thankful that you have left that old, broken world behind you.

The Thessalonians were told, “We are of the day.” We walk in the Light. We are of the Light.

Roger

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Jump Start # 3206

Jump Start # 3206

1 Timothy 2:1-2 “First of all, I urge that entreaties and prayers, petitions and thanksgivings, be made on behalf of all men, for kings and all who are in authority, so that we may lead a tranquil and quiet life in all godliness and dignity.”

We just had an another election this week. There was a lot of hype saying that this may be the most important election in this generation. It seems that same thing was said about the last election. And, in any election, some are happy and others are sad. The divided times that we live in only makes that magnified. Sad becomes mad and with that comes charges and claims about how unfair the results were.

Our verse today, the apostle calls on us to be prayerful and to include in those prayers, kings and all who are in authority. This was to be so a peaceful life could be lived among the people of God. We remember that those early Christians didn’t have a say in who would rule over them. They did not have elections as we do. Corruption, violence and vice were very common among the political hierarchy in Rome. The brethren couldn’t vote, but they could pray. They could pray remembering that God removes kings and appoints leaders. God is always upon the throne.

Now some thoughts from this:

First, those in leadership positon, be it in politics, business, school, or even within the kingdom must keep in mind those that they are leading. To forget that, is to abuse your position and it often is the source of many problems, complaints and heartache. How many times is the expression, “we don’t count,” often heard in business, in government and sadly, even in the church. Too often the decisions that are made are based upon selfish motives and with an intention of keeping the position and power.

The abuse of power and position often leads to uprisings. On a boat, it’s called a mutiny. The captain is set a float in a small row boat as the crew takes over the ship. In ancient politics, the abuse often led to assassinations and a take over of the government. In business, it leads to workers quitting. And, in the church it leads to splits.

It is an honor to lead people. One must do it nobly and with the intention of doing what is right. When one believes that he is better than others because of his title or position, he will quickly lose the qualities of a leader and become a tyrant.

Second, those that follow are not in the position of leaders and we must remember that. Rebellions, mobs, riots are caused not by those in charge, but by those who wish they were in charge. Leaders often must make the difficult call that is painful yet necessary. Even in the powerful Shepherd Psalm, David was led through dark valleys and sat at the table with his enemies. Those are places he likely would not like to be, but it was necessary as he followed the shepherd. If we only followed the leaders we liked or obeyed the rules that were pleasant to us, chaos would ensue. And, it does. Just notice how people drive these days. In long lines of traffic, people have made U-turns right in front of a No U-turn sign. Some drive in the grass or emergency lane just to get around others. They are doing what they want to do. If followers do not follow leaders, then the leaders have no impact.

Third, we must be prayerful towards our leaders. We may not like them. But much too often we’d rather complain about them, post mean things on social media about them, talk down about them than pray for them. Can you imagine praying for a Caesar? Take your pick of them. None of them would fit our liking. Yet, the apostle urged, begged, pleaded, with brethren to be praying for them. I wonder if our times would be better if we prayed more for our leaders?

Fourth, in the excitement of elections and the obsession with red and blue and left and right, let us never forget that there is an up and a down. Every two years there is an election. The ads fill the commercials on TV. The mailbox is stuffed with information about the candidates. Lots and lots of money flows into these campaigns. For the most part, one won’t hear from the majority of these candidates until another two years. And, in all of this, God is the one who holds our allegiance. There has been wars, recessions, inflation, disasters, corruption, good times and bad times, and our God is still there. Candidates come and go, yet, God is still there. We must never forget that we are first and always disciples of Jesus.

Another election…time for more prayers.

Roger

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Jump Start # 3205

Jump Start # 3205

2 Timothy 2:17-18 “and their talk will spread like gangrene, among whom are Hymenaeus and Philetus, men who have gone astray from the truth saying that the resurrection has already taken place, and thus they upset the faith of some.”

Dangerous times is not something new to these days. In our verse today, the apostle warns of dangerous talk. Three immediate things we notice. First, their talk spreads. Paul likens it to gangrene, which is the deadening of the body. We might use the illustration of mold on a wall. It spreads. Second, what was spreading was error. They claimed the resurrection was over. Obviously, they were not talking about Jesus’ resurrection, because it was over by the time this was written. The future resurrection, our resurrection, is what they had in mind. For them, it had already taken place. We missed it. We were left out. How they would prove that is difficult to understand. Thirdly, what they were doing was harmful. They are described as “men who have gone astray from the truth,” and, they were upsetting the faith of some. They were not making brethren stronger. They were not encouraging. They were not helpful. They were making things worse.

Some lessons for us:

First, some things have never changed. Yet, today, there are some who are upsetting the faith of others by saying things that cannot be proven Biblically. Some have an interest in being important. They want a following. And, that is nothing new. The elders at Ephesus were warned that among them some would try to draw the disciples after them. Pride feeds the need to be recognized, valued and important. Some things have never changed.

Second, our faith can be turned upside down if it is not firmly established in the word of God. We need to recognize what God’s word says. We need to be able to notice what isn’t true to the Scriptures. It’s when we don’t know that error gains a foothold among us. Our greatest tool is truth. Truth has nothing to fear. Ask the hard questions, truth can handle it. Examine it. Study it. Know it. Live by it. And, when one is richly embracing truth, he will recognize things that just aren’t right.

Error doesn’t wear a name tag. Error doesn’t announce that what is said is not true. The Lord told us that error looks like one of us. It’s a wolf in sheep clothing, is how Jesus defined it in His sermon. From a distance, that wolf can sure look like a sheep. But look at it closely, you’ll see differences. That wolf won’t eat grass like the sheep. That wolf stands taller than the rest of the sheep. From a distance, he may look like a lamb, but he isn’t. The keen eye will notice. And, when error is placed next to truth, the differences are clearly seen. Don’t be fooled. Not be misled.

Third, an upset faith, shipwrecked faith, or a faith that has crashed, is of little good. If indeed the resurrection was over, what would that mean? Would that mean we missed Heaven? What’s the purpose then if we are no longer going to be raised. Why walk with the Lord, if this is it? Why worship if this is it? Why be holy if this is it? One might as well toss in the towel and live as an animal.

But what about the words of Jesus in John 5 which promises that all who are in the tombs will come forth? What about Paul’s words to the Corinthians that tell us that all will be changed and put on the imperishable? Those “all” words, do they mean “all” or just “some?” Someone should have said that to Philetus. Smooth talking and a charismatic spirit can get around plain simple Bible verses.

Fourth, some of the greatest threats that brethren face are not from the outside but rather from the inside. The danger from within is that we give each other so much benefit of the doubt and we tend to put our guard down because it’s one of us. And, that’s just what Satan does. He sneaks in unnoticed. He picks and chips away at faith until he has wrecked the hearts of many. This is why wise shepherds must truly be overseers. They are not overseeing budgets and supplies, but the hearts of the brethren. What’s being listened to and read? What’s influencing folks? Is there a spirit like Hymenaeus who is spreading things and irritating the faith of some?

We must love the Lord and the truth more than we love each other. If not, we will look the other way, when we should not. We will give someone a pass, who should not be given a pass. We will tolerate things that ought not to be tolerated. The wellbeing of a congregation is wrapped around their love of the Lord and His word.

Dangerous times…keep your eyes open and keep God’s word open.

Roger